Struggling with social media? You're approaching it all wrong!
5 Months Ago in Effective Use of Social Media
Have you become disillusioned by social media?
Nobody shares your stuff? Nobody comments on your posts? They're not generating any leads or enquiries?
In our experience, the majority of ineffective social media activity is due to one basic misunderstanding:
With advertising you put yourself out there, shouting your message loud and clear. You make your message as simple, bold and strong as possible in the hope that as many people as possible will hear it (and often enough for it to sink in).
Social media is very different. There is so much content. There are so many messages. And if people don't want to hear your message, they just flip to another channel and you're gone. Probably for good.
Social media is more like fishing. It is more like flirting. It is more like seduction.
You might put yourself out there in the first instance. But then the majority of your activity will be reactive - listening, observing and responding.
People don't want to see ad copy or marketing materials. They want to get to know you and your business. They want to interact and they want to be social.
People don't want to be bombarded with messages about you and your company. They want to interact with people in your company. They want to talk stuff over. They want somebody to reach out to if they need help, advice or assistance.
People with good social skills don't talk endlessly about themselves. Instead they listen to others and pay attention to what is being said. They try to learn about the other person. They try to understand what the other person is attempting to communicate and respond appropriately.
Attracting a sale is not unlike attracting a partner. Some may take you up on your offer immediately, and some might be more interested in playing the long game. But attraction is still the name of the game.
What are some characteristics of great flirts?
Like any sport, to get good takes practice and participation. The more you play, the better you get!
You need to be a team player - helping others achieve their moment of glory as much as you seek your own.
It pays to get as many good players on your team as possible. This may include:
You bait your line, cast your rod, and see what comes back.
Sometimes you make a big catch. But sometimes you get nothing. It's just a fact of the sport.
You monitor your line constantly, always on guard for the telling pull, and you never know when it might happen.
Then slowly, delicately and confidently, you reel them in. Maybe that's taking the metaphor a little too far....
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